May your days ahead be filled with love and
joy as you are re-united with Grandpa and other
loved ones again.
This is a very difficult blog, as it has been a rough week. On Sunday morning, we awoke to a phone call from my mom saying that my grandma has passed away overnight. It was completely unexpected and shocking, to say the least. She was such a gentle woman who was so proud of her family and life history. Even though we heard her stories (many) times due to Alzheimer's, they never got old. One of my favorite sayings of hers was when she'd look all around, seeing her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren, and say, "Just think... all of this because of me" or "I never imagined all of this." She kept her promise to come to Canada after her first husband was killed in World War II. As she and my Auntie Ann (who was 3 at the time) travelled west to Alberta, she met and married my Grandpa. And the rest is history... 10 grandchildren, 14 great-grandchildren, and one great-great-grandchild was due in a few months.
As I sit here this evening, I am still finding it difficult to believe that she's gone. Even though it's been a week of planning, extended family arriving from out-of-town, I still feel like it's a dream. Tomorrow is Grandma's funeral and it's going to be a very long and tiring day. She was my last remaining grandparent and it's difficult to say good-bye, especially because it was so sudden. To quote a poem written by a friend of my sister's for her funeral tomorrow...
Dear Grandma,
Fond memories flood us
As we cry,
We were not ready
To say good-bye.
Though we knew
Your time would come,
You are our Grandma,
Friend and Mom.
We'll miss your smile,
Your selfless way,
We have so much
We'd like to say.
You walked this earth
With love and grace,
And in our hearts
You'll hold your place.
If you could have spoken
Before you died,
These are the words
You would have replied.
This life for me
Has truly passed,
I've loved you all
'Til the very last.
Weep not for me
But courage take,
And love one another
For my sake.
We love you, Grandma. I am proud to call you my Grandma. You lived an amazing 92 years and had a very successful life filled with loved ones, joy, laughter, and many memories. Rest in peace.
Love and hugs,
Gerry, Lesley, Colby and Jenna xoxo
3 comments:
Oh boy, that was definately hard to read and beautifully said Lesley. The times I visited with your Grandma at your various family functions I really enjoyed listening to her stories and talking with her. She was such a proud, gentle, sweet, happy woman. Our thoughts have been with you and your family this week. Take care, we love you. xoxo
Thinking of you all during this difficult time. May you feel the extra strength and love of God tomorrow as you go through the difficult emotions of saying goodbye to your beloved Grandma.
Thanks, ladies. It is always difficult to say goodbye to a loved one, especially when it's so sudden. I'm confident that many great memories of our sweet Grandma will help us through.
xoxo
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